Everyone has their own posts, maginot invisible mark a limit beyond which we do not allow access to anyone . Who crosses meets rejection, even when that is violent, like a sneeze, it's always a defensive reaction. The limit defines us, and those without is undefined, hazy, absent himself. A deeply ingrained thought and religion to women wishing obedient and to have children that do not make a bad impression, which is necessary to "be good". Namely that we should accept and tolerate what others impose on us as long as the social norms of appearance are not satisfied and thus become a legitimate reaction. Unfortunately, the company deals with material reality: of goods, property, bodily integrity. E 'therefore socially unacceptable theft, fist, scratching the car, but because the company does not theorize the existence of a human reality is not material, do not know and therefore do not address. In the face of those who rebel violence that claims the priest's non-material amounts of its truth and reacts fuck you angry with the mother sees only a rudeness to root out, alas, often succeeding. In this false idea of \u200b\u200bgoodness, self-assertion, the ability to erect fences to protect the identity is often forgotten. For me, one of the few posts that will surely have planted the relationship teacher / student. The basis of this spike is that no Guru, there is no authority except the ones that everyone recognizes from moment to moment, all individuals are born equal and die. Of course there are the world's millions if not billions of people who know more about us on any topic, and learning just comes from a comparison with something else, which is why they stay the world. But that does not move the post: if I decide to go diving, for example, I will turn to who has more experience than me, because I explain how, only that time and that specific question. Each application opens a pupil teacher ratio, every single answer him out. At the end of applications, reports back to be the same as before, and you are going to dive together, each enriching their experience together to the other. Often, in fact, that's not how it works: to be invested with an authority is extremely gratifying to the ego, and most continue to look for this gratification, trying to keep up that particular relationship beyond its natural end. If we're two friends who are diving, the relationship is, you go to sea, is experienced, he is facing. Faced with the skill of the other's admiration, in front of a demand there is collaboration. If we are three, the report already changing, it is no longer balanced. If we are five, there is a plan that makes the dive and the other collaborators. If we are twenty or more there is a teacher, a deputy, an elite and a base, there are lectures and dinners, and who teaches diving retains his authority on land and even when we speak of the olive harvest. And finally, at sea, no one goes anymore. Insane stuff, easy to recognize and easy to avoid. But there are more subtle violence. A response to an unspoken question, a suggestion not required, are in themselves an abuse of power, a desire to establish hierarchies. Worse approval, the condescension of those who do not compare with the other, nor admires, but bestows benevolent smiles down from his position. The exhortation in the face of those who makes a success with a "see ahead" and thus puts himself at the center, points out the advantage and diminish the moves the other. The encouragement of those who tells you that you are well on the road, the paternalism of those who claim to explain the world begins, demand a fuck who can not remain unspoken. Derived from master taught, but it taught the beasts of the circus with his whip and sugar. I'd rather be an ass and kick those who dare to introduce the reins.
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