There are things you learn. Over the years, by dint of experience, I learned to do, to move his hands and feet, to react with the innate tendency to action (in me) to turn away and let die, preferably immediately. Perhaps because Another thing I've learned over time is that girandoti the other hand, strangely, do not die all at once but in return, you make life much worse. So wings, blind fury to oppose the motion, the tantrums, depression and so on. That sounds simple but it is not at all and, moreover, is not one of those things that become easier with time. One thing that I have not yet learned, however, is the refusal, which would be one thing so if someone you love does something you do not like, you're not there to pay, do not close your eyes waiting to speak to the perfectly right incazzatura and even send her to fuck off if the measure of endurance was already full, but instead plant a pole, say "no, not that." Metaphorical two soft lips *. The fact is that I know why I did not come easy. It 'the first time I dropped the two lips of the above, when I was just more than one child, the person subject of the refusal made a violent gesture, and went away forever. Had nothing to do that first "no", rationally I know, but despite my rational consciousness, the fact is that this ability to me are a bit 'lost indeed, looking good, I was not even able to recognize it. Tonight I found myself the front and, for the first time, I realized that the two lips are not good only to those who give, but especially those who receive it. If you protect a person goes out they told me once and it's true, though opposed to his shortcomings as waste, but the revitalization. Oimmena, now I have to disassemble all the mechanisms that I had done forty years!
* Lips: backhand spring on the mouth (hence the etymology), physical punishment is likely to become the subject of proverbial painful threat, hence the warning "Give yourself a lip."
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